Mr. S4J: but i was also thinking of keeping it a secret surprise
Mr. S4J: but anyways, i thought that since it is our 15th year of marital bliss, we could have a vow renewal ceremony
Mr. S4J: do you want to do that?
S4J: oh crud! you just made me cry!
Mr. S4J: haha, sorry
S4J: I would love that
Mr. S4J: ok, we'll work it out
S4J: okay honey
Mr. S4J: i was thinking that if our anniversary was on a sunday, i would surprise you with it after services
Mr. S4J: but it would all be too hard, so i am just telling you
Mr. S4J: plus my old vows need to be renewed
Mr. S4J: they were good and all, but my dumb job got in the way of them sometimes
S4J: to make new ones or to reaffirm?
Mr. S4J: i'll make new ones, or reaffirm the old ones so you can know that my new dumb job won't get in their way
Mr. S4J: how is that?
S4J: I'm not sure
S4J: what do you mean by that?
Mr. S4J: i mean that sometimes i can't be there for you in sickness and in health because i am doing war
Mr. S4J: since i'll be retiring i will be able to be there more, and want to officially remind you of that
S4J: oh good Lord. Go to dinner before I turn into a pile of mess.
Mr. S4J: hahaha, sorry
Mr. S4J: have a good rest today
Mr. S4J: i love you
S4J: I love you too.